According to my wedding planning bible, we should be finalising the guest list now and choosing the best places to sit everyone to keep the peace and make sure everyone has a great day.

There's still things on the list to do. We have yet to choose wedding rings, finalise the menu and room decorations as well as meet with the Superintendent Registrar, purchase wedding favours and sort an outfit for the flower girl.

I can see how this can really be stressful for some. It does feel sometimes like a wedding, that was supposed to be a small intimate affair, can take over your whole life.

We are physically having to make every effort to keep our cool and enjoy this process. After all this is the only time we plan to ever do this!

Plans to do anything, go anywhere or buy anything for the house are off limits because of the wedding. We just keep reminding ourselves it's all worth it and once the day has gone, we'll probably wish we could do it all over again.

One thing I've also noticed is the amount of weird anxiety wedding dreams I seem to be having. Such as the venue looking completely different on the day, my dress not actually being the one I chose and so forth. I am assuming this is perfectly natural?